6. You plan surprises
If it’s Christmas, simply bringing in some donuts for you two could mean that you are serious. You want to see him smiling, and everything seems worth that smile. It is just that you care a lot. You are aware how to light up the spark in the relationship and never let it burn. You surely don’t want your man to sink in boredom and think that life is not so exciting. You are the excitement in the man’s life.