So many couples struggle with having a happy and peaceful relationship. According to my observation, many relationships usually end up because of a few set of reasons. Also most of the issues that women face are rooted in the same mistakes. So in order to help you have a happier and healthier relationship I have catalog a list of some of the most common mistakes that women that can rotten their relationships with their partners.
So here you go:
- Trying to change him
There exists a gigantic difference between ‘trying to change him’ and ‘trying to make him a better person’. Rule no.1 that every women should follow is ‘let him be him’. Always remember, that your partner has his own unique personality, and you should never tamper with it .i.e. let him carry his uniqueness with great gratification and fearlessness. And, In case you want to erode his bad habits then you have to do it in such a way that he doesn’t feel ridiculed rather he is inspired to bring that change in him. Always remember that you are his significant other and you are here to support him, your constant efforts to change him might make him lose his confident.
Not appreciating him
You love being appreciated, don’t you? Similarly he too dies for appreciation. He expects you to value everything he does for you. And being a good partner it becomes your duty to appreciate everything good that he does. Always remember that appreciation is the key to happy relationship.
Not trusting him
Jealousy is a part of human nature. A little jealousy is fine but if you lose your head every time you find him talking to another woman is a big no-no! Men don’t like jealous and insecure girlfriends rather they look up to women who are secure and confident. Also remember that, Trust is foundation of every relationship. Ask yourself why you are unable to trust him and if there something that is bothering you then try to resolve the issue with your partner.
Not respecting his personal space
Personal space is very much needed in a relationship as it allows the individuals to keep their identity intact. Unlike women, men hesitate in expressing their emotions. When in a bad mood they prefer sorting out the things out. So, when he tells you that he isn’t in a mood to talk then try not to interrupt him during his introspection phase since it will only make the matter worse.