Your relationship should feel like you won the lottery, not the consolation prize…
When you are actually into a taken for granted kind off relation then what’s the point of you two being together. If you usually have that feeling of not getting enough love you deserve then look out for these signs and revaluate your relationship.
1. You see him on his phone all the time but when you text him, he takes forever to text back- It’s one thing if you know he hardly checks his phone, but if you are out together and he never stops looking at the phone, then chances are that he definitely sees your text too and just do not give it a damn.
2. You can’t remember the last time you felt pretty around him- At a certain point in a relationship, he might not tell you how gorgeous you are each day but you should still feel like he thinks that without him having to say it. If you often feel like he does not even see you as gorgeous or you doubt if he’s even attracted to you that is surely not OK.
3. He forgets about huge life events that are really important to you- A person you are in a relationship with remembers that you have that job interview or a presentation at work coming up, but if your guy does not remember those or ask how they went, it is easy to feel like you are not even really a part of his life.
4. You feel like he treats his female friends better than he treats you- Yes you will want him to be nice to his female friends, but if you feel like they get more attention than you get, that should not be the case of course.
5. You don’t feel supported by him- He might not be discouraging necessarily but he also does not make you feel like you can take over the world when you totally could.
6. You are less happy most of your time together- It is really easy to be with someone and think things are fine all the time, but if you are not happy with him at least most of the time then it’s time to revaluate.
7. You have started to think maybe you can’t have everything you want in a relationship- If you have started thinking that maybe your dream guy does not exist then seriously revaluate.