While the first year of marriage may be a honeymoon period, as years pass and your marriage approaches a decade together, several couples admit that their relationship becomes stagnant. When your spouse or wife begins to act like a roommate or sister, you know it’s time to change things up. After all, a good married existence necessitates a sense of sexual liberation and a few moments of passion. So, here’s how to keep the lust in your marriage alive.

Begin by attracting their attention

Have you been wearing your hair in the same way for a long time? Alternatively, perhaps your outfit selections are more akin to a practical and safe ‘mum style’ than the modish little minx you could be. Allow yourself to rediscover your own sense of style by investing in a fashionable new wardrobe or booking a salon appointment for a trendy cut and colour. A change in your appearance may enhance your confidence and perhaps make your spouse pay more attention to you.

Take a dance class together

While physical intimacy has its place in a marriage, you must also ensure that you and your partner are emotionally connected. Taking a new hobby class together is a terrific approach to guarantee that you continue to have similar interests as years pass. Salsa or Tango dancing may help you emotionally and physically connect with each other, resulting in sparks flying between you in no time!

Vow to experiment a little in bed

People seek novelty in bed, just as they do when they become tired of eating the same thing or wearing the same clothing again and over. If you’ve been sticking to a few tried-and-true pleasure ways, let your spouse know you’re interested in trying something new. You may have a great day exploring together.

Surprise them with toys or lingerie

There are several methods to satisfy your spouse in the boudoir, ranging from delicious lingerie to kinky toys. Take your relationship to the next level by being open to new experiences and adding a little spice to your intimate times.

You may not experience lust all day or every day, but you should still be attracted to and emotionally connected to your partner. Use this approach to feel more connected to your partner, since you have a long way to go!