There are several times when we think a guy is flirting with us while he’s just being sweet or when we think that he is just being friendly while he’s trying to flirt. Flirting can be very confusing especially for people those who have just entered the dating sphere. Not being able to tell whether he’s interested in you is very hard.

If you are not sure about his intentions, here are some signs that will tell whether he’s into you or not.

He initiates the conversation

This is not a very prominent sign but it does show that he is interested in talking to you. If he tries to initiate a conversation with you every now and then, then this sign could be paired with other signs to show that he is flirting.

He gets touchy

Flirting usually involves touching along with sweet talk which distinguishes it from a friendly gesture. But try to understand his intentions for touching you. If it is a casual pat on your back or a handshake, it’s just him being nice. But if he finds a reason to touch you like when he hands you something or if he’s holding your hand for a longer time, then he’s definitely flirting with you.

He tries to spend personal time with you

If he asks you out for coffee someplace private, it means that he is trying to know you personally. He wants to spend more time with you some place with less disturbance which shows that he is interested in you. If the place has dim lighting with less number of people in the place, he is hinting you that he is flirting.

He gives you extra attention

This is a very obvious sign of flirting. If he is giving you more attention than any other girl even in the public, you know he’s into you. No guy would give you so much attention in front of other girls if he was just being nice.

He wants to hear about you

If a guy is talking to you about your interests, hobbies, thoughts on various subjects, he is definitely trying to flirt. No guy will take the efforts of knowing these things about any girl.

He stares at you

If you catch him staring at you randomly for no reason, you can be sure that he is into you. Whether it’s the constant stare towards you while you talk or from the other side of the room, this guy is interested in you.

He smiles around you

A person can naturally be a very positive and happy person who smiles all the time. But there is a huge difference between him doing it naturally and him being extra happy around you. If he is a bit more excited around you, he likes you.

He tries to impress you

Most guys brag about themselves to show-off and it is a very common trait in most guys. But if a guy does it in a subtle manner to up his status in your eyes, he is doing it to impress you. It is a natural instinct for guys to talk about themselves to impress a girl.

He asks you about your dating status

One of the most obvious signs that a guy likes you is when he asks you whether you’re single or not. Now this could also be for a friend of his who is shy to approach you but if you see this sign along with the others, you know it’s for him.

There are several times when we think a guy is flirting with us while he’s just being sweet or when we think that he is just being friendly while he’s trying to flirt. Flirting can be very confusing especially for people those who have just entered the dating sphere. Not being able to tell whether he’s interested in you is very hard.

 If you are not sure about his intentions, here are some signs that will tell whether he’s into you or not.

He initiates the conversation

This is not a very prominent sign but it does show that he is interested in talking to you. If he tries to initiate a conversation with you every now and then, then this sign could be paired with other signs to show that he is flirting.

He gets touchy

Flirting usually involves touching along with sweet talk which distinguishes it from a friendly gesture. But try to understand his intentions for touching you. If it is a casual pat on your back or a handshake, it’s just him being nice. But if he finds a reason to touch you like when he hands you something or if he’s holding your hand for a longer time, then he’s definitely flirting with you.

He tries to spend personal time with you

If he asks you out for coffee someplace private, it means that he is trying to know you personally. He wants to spend more time with you some place with less disturbance which shows that he is interested in you. If the place has dim lighting with less number of people in the place, he is hinting you that he is flirting.

He gives you extra attention

This is a very obvious sign of flirting. If he is giving you more attention than any other girl even in the public, you know he’s into you. No guy would give you so much attention in front of other girls if he was just being nice.

He wants to hear about you

If a guy is talking to you about your interests, hobbies, thoughts on various subjects, he is definitely trying to flirt. No guy will take the efforts of knowing these things about any girl.

He stares at you

If you catch him staring at you randomly for no reason, you can be sure that he is into you. Whether it’s the constant stare towards you while you talk or from the other side of the room, this guy is interested in you.

He smiles around you

A person can naturally be a very positive and happy person who smiles all the time. But there is a huge difference between him doing it naturally and him being extra happy around you. If he is a bit more excited around you, he likes you.

He tries to impress you

Most guys brag about themselves to show-off and it is a very common trait in most guys. But if a guy does it in a subtle manner to up his status in your eyes, he is doing it to impress you. It is a natural instinct for guys to talk about themselves to impress a girl.

He asks you about your dating status

One of the most obvious signs that a guy likes you is when he asks you whether you’re single or not. Now this could also be for a friend of his who is shy to approach you but if you see this sign along with the others, you know it’s for him.

He asks for your number

If a guy asks you whether you are not whatsapp or not or to keep you updated about something, he is just making an excuse to get your number. If he wants to communicate with you, he can do it on other social media platforms. So if he is making silly excuses for your phone number, he is interested to talk to you

If a guy asks you whether you are not whatsapp or not or to keep you updated about something, he is just making an excuse to get your number. If he wants to communicate with you, he can do it on other social media platforms. So if he is making silly excuses for your phone number, he is interested to talk to you

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