We often spend time thinking about our past relationships and think about the possibilities of what could have happened if you did something differently. If you are happy or sad about your past, you tend to think a lot about it.
A failed relationship means a failure in putting in enough efforts, or letting your relationship surround around the mistakes. Sometimes, we lose ourselves while trying to figure out our mistakes. Let the mistakes be left alone, and think about the great lessons you got to learn from your past failed relationships.
1. Your change in attitude
A relationship is enough to change who you really are and how your perspective has been since the breakup. If you were not so emotional back then, maybe you are now. You get to know the difference between the old you and new you. You can track the changes and the improvements in yourself. If you have regrets about the things you did in the past, this lesson would force you to be quite careful next time.
2. Differentiation between what you want and what you desired in the past
Well, it is about wrong choices, isn’t it? If you dated someone in the past who was arrogant and didn’t respect you, well, it gives you a clear image of how you want your next guy to be. You don’t want your future boyfriend to be disrespectful to you. You get to know the importance of things that a relationship demands for. Be grateful about letting your ex go, and be curious about what is coming to your way.
3. What you deserve
When you date someone with whom the relationship didn’t go so well, you learn about your needs and what you deserve. Dating a not-so-worthy guy in the past would let you open your mind in next chance. And you would never want to pick a similar man again. It amps up your pride, and self-worth. It is very crucial to understand where you stand in life and luckily, it could be beside someone who will love you deeply. Keep your head up!
4. Future goals
Future goals are important once you are getting near to it. When you are a teenager, you hardly know about your plans for marriage or how your future husband is going to be. Right went you jump into college life, you start to realize and understand that your present will lead you to a defined future. If you have dated a few guys who failed to make you happy, you will understand that all you need to work hard is on your future husband. You will dream about the future dates, having a family with your man, and so on. It is worth the wait!
5. Changing yourself
Improvements are important. If you see yourself being a gorgeous girl with a nice car and a big house in future, you need to work on it. Let your priorities change. All your past mistakes come together at this point and help you realize who you want to be five years from now. Time to rush up for the best, ladies!