Are you in love with your partner is it just an attachment. Love can be complicated and to know difference between a love and infatuation is pretty tough. Read on to know, whether it is a true love or something else for you ok !

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Love Is Selfless  

Love is selfless but attachment is selfish. When you’re in love, you want to make the other person happy. You aren’t keeping score, over who helps more or fight over who is supposed to wash the dishes. You don’t blackmail your partner or try to manipulate them.

Love Is Liberating

Love is liberating and attachment is controlling. Your partner encourages you to be who you genuinely are and you won’t be afraid to expose your weaknesses.


Love Doesn’t Know Ego

Relationship based on attachment is dominated by ego. You find it difficult to look inside you for fault and resolve differences.

Love Is Eternal

Love survives howsoever difficult the passage of time is while attachment’s life is short. If you are merely attached to them, you are likely to hold resentment after a breakup. You may even experience feelings of betrayal.

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