If you’re meant to be with someone then it doesn’t matter whether your relationship is going on a fast or slow pace. But in most of the cases if the relationship is moving on a faster pace, it doesn’t last long. This isn’t about judging anyone’s relationship choice, it’s more about making one that’s good for you. Although there are no hard and fast rules for how quickly a relationship should move. Taking it slow sounds boring and safe, but it allows both people to really get to know each other and figure things out. Here are 5 signs that reveal your relationship is moving too fast!
The driving force of the relationship is just attraction
When you start dating someone you have a butterfly feeling in your stomach, that rush, thrill and excitement. You are swooning all over this person and you are completely mesmerized. However, this feeling gradually fades with time in a relationship. So if the driving force of your relationship with one another is just attraction then probably it won’t last for long!
You made your relationship public in the first week
It’s not even been a week and you started doing Public Display of Affection. This person is all over Instagram pictures, Facebook pictures and Snapchat stories. Don’t you think this is moving way too fast? I guess it is and you should take your time and develop an understanding and strong bond before doing all this.
You hardly hangout with your friends anymore
While it is somewhat normal to want to spend as much time as you can with your new boyfriend, but completely cutting off all your friends is a sign that your relationship is moving too fast.
You got in bed with him too soon
You need to completely know about each other and develop an understanding before getting intimate. Sex is something that should be given over to a new partner slowly and steadily, building up trust and loving respect along the way. This is again a sign that you’re rushing things.
You moved in together before the first 6 months
Moving in with someone is a huge thing. If you guys have already moved in before six months then it’s a sign that you are rushing things. You can’t even answer the basic questions about the person who you are living with! So take your time before moving in which will lead to better chances of surviving this relationship.