Even after 5 years of the gruesome December 2012 gang rape (Nirbhaya Tragedy), which resulted in national outrage and several legal measures, Delhi remains to be one of the most unsafe city for women.
The city has unfailingly reported an increase in the number of sexual crimes against women and has also clinched the top spot for the most number of rape cases, acid attacks, dowry deaths, attempt to rape, kidnapping, sexual harassment, attempt to disrobe, abduction, voyeurism, and stalking.
But being citizens of this city, we still love it with all its flaws.
And so did this Delhi based woman, Janki Dave, until she experienced ill-treatment at the hands of an Uber driver and took it to her social media account to unfold the story.
Here’s exactly what she wrote:
For years, Delhi occupied a special place in my heart. I was in love with capital’s wide roads, relatively easy/comfortable commute, good infrastructure and loud but almost always warm citizens. I took pride in the fact that I could live independently in Delhi, afford a good life, until today.
I have always brushed aside Delhi’s so-called ‘security concerns’. Maybe, because I never felt unsafe in the city I called “home”. Three hours back, I was shown the mirror. Delhi shocked me, amazed me, forced me to think and pushed me to the corner; compelling me to publish this.
I was travelling by an Uber (a mode of transport which I have been using daily for over 4 years) to the airport. I had my flight scheduled at 8:05 PM. As luck would have it, I was stuck in traffic for over 2 hours. It was already 7:20 PM, I was sure of not making it. At 7:32 PM, I requested the cabbie (politely) if it would be possible for him to drive me back home (Noida). On his denial, I asked him to drop me at my scheduled drop point (Terminal 3, IGI Airport). I could sense he was running out of patience. But I failed to predict what hit me in the next 5 minutes. The cabbie not only refused to take me to the Airport but took a U-turn (despite my repeated objections), parked the car under a flyover and ended the trip. I was fuming but somehow managed to maintain calm. I checked with him (again, politely) if he could take the car to a well-lit corner or near the Gas Station (Which I told him was 2 minutes away). His answer was on the expected lines. He zoomed his car to the opposite end, parked it in the middle of the road near Vasant Enclave, got out of his seat and started throwing (yes, throwing, not placing) my bags/suitcase on the road. I objected, refused to get off the cab, but in vain. He flung my laptop which was the last piece of luggage accessible to him (in the front seat). I jumped out at the sight, somehow stopped him from destroying my laptop. But, things only got worse. What followed was nothing but hooliganism. Abuses, threats, even attempts to indulge in physical assault. All this, in presence of several passers-by, who simply stared and the onlookers who had nothing to offer but their lustful gaze. At some point, I was even told “Maar Dalunga, Ladki Hai, Sambhal Ke reh”; this, in front of at least 15 people, who proclaim to be human beings.
When I raised the issue with Uber, they were quick to send me a templated reply, seeking my Email Id. It’s been hours since I provided them one, and I am still waiting for Uber to wake up.
As far as the Cabbie is concerned, this is not lack of professionalism or misbehaviour, it is a criminal offence and I intend to raise this matter on the apt platform.
I have always found solace in Delhi, but these 5 minutes shall be etched in my mind forever. Sooner or later, Delhi did teach me a lesson, one which I’d not like anyone to learn.
Along with the post, she even shared a screenshot of her feedback that she had posted on Uber app after this appalling incident.
For years, Delhi occupied a special place in my heart. I was in love with capital’s wide roads, relatively…
Well, this really is shameful on the part of the Uber driver. Thankfully, Janki had been good to him and did not argue with him much. But if this is how he reacted even when she had kept mum, what would have been his reaction if she would have tried to revolt against him.
So does this mean that women are supposed to keep mum even when they shouldn’t? Should they just sit back and let the other sex harass them whenever they wish to? What do you have to say about the same? Share your views in the comment section.